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Have a boyfriend, weโre both in our mid-20s and have been dating for most of the year. Heโs my first love, so gentle to me, and I truly love what weโre building together.
I noticed a few months ago when we were in the middle of doggy that I was smellingโฆunwashed ass. And when we were moving positions I could confirm it was him, because I came near his rear end and could smell fecal residue stronger. Not trying to paint him as gross. I love him and heโs pretty hygienic otherwise. He also has a thing where he canโt smell, so I wanna give him the benefit of the doubt since he canโt โsmell-checkโ himself like I can. But the smell was bad/distracting enough that I brought it up gently after we finished sex. He was embarrassed, apologized profusely and promised to do better. In the wake of that, heโs been fairly good at showering thoroughly right before sex to prevent any unwanted smells.
Itโs probably only happened two times since then that during foreplay I had to remind him to shower, or when he was trying to initiate and I could smell through his shorts that he needed to freshen up before clothes even came off.
Itโs been a few weeks since I had to mention him smelling a bit unsavory. Today we had sex and while I didnโt smell anything, I noticed when he got up there was a small skid mark where he was laying down. Is it worth bringing up in case he still isnโt thoroughly washing? Or should I let it go as a one-off that in a long-term relationship itโs inevitable that your partner will have hygiene slip-ups from time to time?
I donโt want to make him insecure/make him scared that every time we have sex his butt will smell bad, but I donโt want it to keep happening. Hygiene is really big for me, and bad smells can really take me out of sex/get in the way of me getting turned on in the future.
TLDR: Not sure if my boyfriend has the best anal hygiene. Smells kept coming up during/before sex. Now there was a small skid mark on my sheets. Iโve brought up hygiene, but is it worth bringing up again? Or should I write this incident off as a one-off and save him the insecurity/awkwardness?
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I noticed a few months ago when we were in the middle of doggy that I was smellingโฆunwashed ass. And when we were moving positions I could confirm it was him, because I came near his rear end and could smell fecal residue stronger. Not trying to paint him as gross. I love him and heโs pretty hygienic otherwise. He also has a thing where he canโt smell, so I wanna give him the benefit of the doubt since he canโt โsmell-checkโ himself like I can. But the smell was bad/distracting enough that I brought it up gently after we finished sex. He was embarrassed, apologized profusely and promised to do better. In the wake of that, heโs been fairly good at showering thoroughly right before sex to prevent any unwanted smells.
Itโs probably only happened two times since then that during foreplay I had to remind him to shower, or when he was trying to initiate and I could smell through his shorts that he needed to freshen up before clothes even came off.
Itโs been a few weeks since I had to mention him smelling a bit unsavory. Today we had sex and while I didnโt smell anything, I noticed when he got up there was a small skid mark where he was laying down. Is it worth bringing up in case he still isnโt thoroughly washing? Or should I let it go as a one-off that in a long-term relationship itโs inevitable that your partner will have hygiene slip-ups from time to time?
I donโt want to make him insecure/make him scared that every time we have sex his butt will smell bad, but I donโt want it to keep happening. Hygiene is really big for me, and bad smells can really take me out of sex/get in the way of me getting turned on in the future.
TLDR: Not sure if my boyfriend has the best anal hygiene. Smells kept coming up during/before sex. Now there was a small skid mark on my sheets. Iโve brought up hygiene, but is it worth bringing up again? Or should I write this incident off as a one-off and save him the insecurity/awkwardness?
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