My girlfriend has never had an orgasm before, and I want to help her (but Iโ€™m away at school) how?

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So my girlfriend has never had an orgasm. Before me, she had a previous partner, and they were together for a while and had a good amount of sex. Sheโ€™s told me that she never orgasmed with him, though the closest she got was when she was high, and apparently that felt really good compared to other times. For a while, she didnโ€™t masturbate because sheโ€™d never gotten there.

When she came to me, I was surprised because she was my first sexual partner . I want to help her, but itโ€™s hard because she doesnโ€™t really know what she needs to get to that point. Weโ€™ve talked about it a lot. She wasnโ€™t super educated on sexual stuff, so Iโ€™ve tried to help educate her as much as I can. I also did a lot of research beforehand.

I bought her a bullet vibrator to help her explore masturbation, and sheโ€™s been trying it. She says that it โ€œgoes uphill,โ€ meaning it feels good but then she plateaus. I think itโ€™s probably more mental than physical because she has a high sex drive and is always in the mood.

I really want to help her reach orgasm, but Iโ€™m away at school for a few months and wonโ€™t be seeing her during that time. Iโ€™m looking for advicewhat can I do from a distance to help her, or how can I support her in exploring her own pleasure until weโ€™re together again?

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