My girlfriend has never had an orgasm before, and I want to help her (but I’m away at school) how?

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So my girlfriend has never had an orgasm. Before me, she had a previous partner, and they were together for a while and had a good amount of sex. She’s told me that she never orgasmed with him, though the closest she got was when she was high, and apparently that felt really good compared to other times. For a while, she didn’t masturbate because she’d never gotten there.

When she came to me, I was surprised because she was my first sexual partner . I want to help her, but it’s hard because she doesn’t really know what she needs to get to that point. We’ve talked about it a lot. She wasn’t super educated on sexual stuff, so I’ve tried to help educate her as much as I can. I also did a lot of research beforehand.

I bought her a bullet vibrator to help her explore masturbation, and she’s been trying it. She says that it “goes uphill,” meaning it feels good but then she plateaus. I think it’s probably more mental than physical because she has a high sex drive and is always in the mood.

I really want to help her reach orgasm, but I’m away at school for a few months and won’t be seeing her during that time. I’m looking for advicewhat can I do from a distance to help her, or how can I support her in exploring her own pleasure until we’re together again?

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