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Hey everyone,
My wife and I have good sex and she gets off regularly – the Satisfyer was a real game changer for us. But here’s the thing: I’m someone who loves variety, while she’s more of a creature of habit and prefers sex to always be the same. We do talk a lot about it, so please no “just communicate more” advice – we already do that.
We have tried new things from time to time, but honestly I don’t think we’ve hit on anything truly good. That’s why my wife often prefers going back to our “standard program,” which works really well for both of us, instead of risking something new that might not be satisfying.
Where I struggle most is with oral and fingering – I can’t seem to get her to really let go or sink into it, and I often feel I’m being repetitive. A few months ago I read an amazing Reddit comment with super detailed instructions on giving good oral (start with compliments, kiss everywhere first, don’t go straight for the clit, etc.). I wanted to try it but I can’t find the post anymore.
So I’m turning to you all: • What have been the biggest game changers for you or your partner? • Any detailed guides, tips, or even links to classic Reddit posts you’d recommend? • How did you break out of routines and add more variety?
Thanks in advance – I’m really hoping to expand my repertoire and bring some fresh energy into our sex life.
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My wife and I have good sex and she gets off regularly – the Satisfyer was a real game changer for us. But here’s the thing: I’m someone who loves variety, while she’s more of a creature of habit and prefers sex to always be the same. We do talk a lot about it, so please no “just communicate more” advice – we already do that.
We have tried new things from time to time, but honestly I don’t think we’ve hit on anything truly good. That’s why my wife often prefers going back to our “standard program,” which works really well for both of us, instead of risking something new that might not be satisfying.
Where I struggle most is with oral and fingering – I can’t seem to get her to really let go or sink into it, and I often feel I’m being repetitive. A few months ago I read an amazing Reddit comment with super detailed instructions on giving good oral (start with compliments, kiss everywhere first, don’t go straight for the clit, etc.). I wanted to try it but I can’t find the post anymore.
So I’m turning to you all: • What have been the biggest game changers for you or your partner? • Any detailed guides, tips, or even links to classic Reddit posts you’d recommend? • How did you break out of routines and add more variety?
Thanks in advance – I’m really hoping to expand my repertoire and bring some fresh energy into our sex life.
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