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/u/davidalxl
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Hey everyone,
My wife and I have good sex and she gets off regularly โ the Satisfyer was a real game changer for us. But hereโs the thing: Iโm someone who loves variety, while sheโs more of a creature of habit and prefers sex to always be the same. We do talk a lot about it, so please no โjust communicate moreโ advice โ we already do that.
We have tried new things from time to time, but honestly I donโt think weโve hit on anything truly good. Thatโs why my wife often prefers going back to our โstandard program,โ which works really well for both of us, instead of risking something new that might not be satisfying.
Where I struggle most is with oral and fingering โ I canโt seem to get her to really let go or sink into it, and I often feel Iโm being repetitive. A few months ago I read an amazing Reddit comment with super detailed instructions on giving good oral (start with compliments, kiss everywhere first, donโt go straight for the clit, etc.). I wanted to try it but I canโt find the post anymore.
So Iโm turning to you all: โข What have been the biggest game changers for you or your partner? โข Any detailed guides, tips, or even links to classic Reddit posts youโd recommend? โข How did you break out of routines and add more variety?
Thanks in advance โ Iโm really hoping to expand my repertoire and bring some fresh energy into our sex life.
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My wife and I have good sex and she gets off regularly โ the Satisfyer was a real game changer for us. But hereโs the thing: Iโm someone who loves variety, while sheโs more of a creature of habit and prefers sex to always be the same. We do talk a lot about it, so please no โjust communicate moreโ advice โ we already do that.
We have tried new things from time to time, but honestly I donโt think weโve hit on anything truly good. Thatโs why my wife often prefers going back to our โstandard program,โ which works really well for both of us, instead of risking something new that might not be satisfying.
Where I struggle most is with oral and fingering โ I canโt seem to get her to really let go or sink into it, and I often feel Iโm being repetitive. A few months ago I read an amazing Reddit comment with super detailed instructions on giving good oral (start with compliments, kiss everywhere first, donโt go straight for the clit, etc.). I wanted to try it but I canโt find the post anymore.
So Iโm turning to you all: โข What have been the biggest game changers for you or your partner? โข Any detailed guides, tips, or even links to classic Reddit posts youโd recommend? โข How did you break out of routines and add more variety?
Thanks in advance โ Iโm really hoping to expand my repertoire and bring some fresh energy into our sex life.
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