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I have never really acknowledged this but I F(20) feel a lot of sexual shame. Let me elaborate on this: I have always felt a bit more tomboyish and less feminine but this might be because my mom was not very present in my upbringing which is why I was heavily influenced by my older brother and dad. This was not a problem when I was younger ofc since I did not think about myself that much. But as I got older I started to compare myself to other women who, I have felt are a lot more in tune with their femininity and sexuality. I on the other hand, have never felt like I was in touch with my sexuality. I know I am a pretty woman and that a lot of men do find me attractive but I just can not see myself ever feeling comfortable with being intimate with them. For the record, I am straight and have had sex twice, with two different guys and after each encounter I felt really weird and grossed out about myself over a longer period of time. Also, I am somewhat insecure about the appearance of my vulva which obviously does not help me build confidence in that aspect. Please send good advice
) and maybe you can relate
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I have never really acknowledged this but I F(20) feel a lot of sexual shame. Let me elaborate on this: I have always felt a bit more tomboyish and less feminine but this might be because my mom was not very present in my upbringing which is why I was heavily influenced by my older brother and dad. This was not a problem when I was younger ofc since I did not think about myself that much. But as I got older I started to compare myself to other women who, I have felt are a lot more in tune with their femininity and sexuality. I on the other hand, have never felt like I was in touch with my sexuality. I know I am a pretty woman and that a lot of men do find me attractive but I just can not see myself ever feeling comfortable with being intimate with them. For the record, I am straight and have had sex twice, with two different guys and after each encounter I felt really weird and grossed out about myself over a longer period of time. Also, I am somewhat insecure about the appearance of my vulva which obviously does not help me build confidence in that aspect. Please send good advice
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