How do I ask my partner (m) to put in effort while I'm on top?

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I've been sleeping with this guy for about a month or so now. He's about average in the length department, which I'm not used to as my last relationship (long term) was with someone who was very well-endowed. This new guy and I have amazing sex just the same, but not when I'm on top. I can't feel much when I'm in that position with him, which is exacerbated by the fact that he does not move underneath me. He'll have his hands on my hips and move me, but doesn't do anything other than that with his body. I am thrusting with him the entire time he's on me, and we both enjoy that a lot. It's obvious to me that neither of us really enjoy me being on top, but he always wants us to start in that position regardless.

This is the first person I've slept with (other than my previous partner) in over a decade, so I don't really know how to navigate these things. I'm afraid I'll come off as offensive.

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