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EDIT: used to be βhow often are you asked for consent?β but Iβm interested in peopleβs whole of sexual experiences, not just current.
How often have you been asked for consent?
Interesting question to me, given that some people are ideally asked before any act, even a kiss, and on the opposite end of the spectrum some find a lack of spontaneity off putting (I think this is silly but to each their own). And, potential disparities in asking depending on gender. So Iβm wondering:
My answers: * Male / 27 * Female * Very rarely, but occasionally with a new partner especially when younger * I do wish I were asked more, though Iβve never felt physically threatened. I have however had several partners try to coerce me into acts I plainly refused the first time, which never feels good. I always ask if itβs a new act and with a new person, even a first kiss.
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How often have you been asked for consent?
Interesting question to me, given that some people are ideally asked before any act, even a kiss, and on the opposite end of the spectrum some find a lack of spontaneity off putting (I think this is silly but to each their own). And, potential disparities in asking depending on gender. So Iβm wondering:
- Your gender/age
- Your partnersβ gender (or multiple)
- How often you are asked for consent/during which acts
- Whether you wish you were asked more, less, or itβs always been just right (Goldilocks lol)
My answers: * Male / 27 * Female * Very rarely, but occasionally with a new partner especially when younger * I do wish I were asked more, though Iβve never felt physically threatened. I have however had several partners try to coerce me into acts I plainly refused the first time, which never feels good. I always ask if itβs a new act and with a new person, even a first kiss.
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