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Iβm 18M and recently started being sexually active with my partner 20F. In the past, I avoided sex because I felt it wasnβt the right time or place, even though I could normally get aroused and hard.
Now that weβve started being intimate, Iβve been having trouble. At first, I could get an erection but would lose it if I didnβt initiate things but letβs say two hours later, when my partner tries to initiate, I couldnβt get hard at all, which was really discouraging.
With more experience, itβs gotten a bit easier to get and maintain an erection, but I still lose it during foreplay. By the time my partner is fully ready, I canβt stay hard long enough or get it back again. I also think itβs important to mention that I usually prioritize my partners pleasure more than myself because I think I wonβt be enough
Iβve already tried several things like reducing porn, working out more, getting medical tests, and even trying medication but nothing has really solved the problem. What confuses me is that I can get an erection on my own without an issue, but when it comes to being with my partner, I struggle either to get hard or to stay hard. Iβm starting to think itβs psychological but I really do find her attractive and am into her so Iβm really lost on this
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Now that weβve started being intimate, Iβve been having trouble. At first, I could get an erection but would lose it if I didnβt initiate things but letβs say two hours later, when my partner tries to initiate, I couldnβt get hard at all, which was really discouraging.
With more experience, itβs gotten a bit easier to get and maintain an erection, but I still lose it during foreplay. By the time my partner is fully ready, I canβt stay hard long enough or get it back again. I also think itβs important to mention that I usually prioritize my partners pleasure more than myself because I think I wonβt be enough
Iβve already tried several things like reducing porn, working out more, getting medical tests, and even trying medication but nothing has really solved the problem. What confuses me is that I can get an erection on my own without an issue, but when it comes to being with my partner, I struggle either to get hard or to stay hard. Iβm starting to think itβs psychological but I really do find her attractive and am into her so Iβm really lost on this
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