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Kenyan actress Nyaboke Moraa has stirred a wave of reflection and solidarity after publicly rejecting advice to seek therapy following the devastating loss of her daughter. Her heartfelt, tear-filled video has sparked a national conversation around grief, healing, and the deeply personal journey of mourning.
In July 2024, Nyaboke and her partner, digital strategist Blak Aende, were hit by the heartbreaking death of their firstborn daughter, Marie Achieng. The cause of death was not publicly disclosed, but the impact was evident in the grief that followed. Close friends like actress Sandra Dacha shared the sad news and rallied for prayers on their behalf.
While many Kenyans sent messages of comfort, others encouraged Nyaboke to seek professional help. But in a raw and emotional video, the actress expressed her unwillingness to go to therapy, making it clear that she was not yet ready.
“There is nothing as painful as death,” she said through tears. “I am already a therapist to myself. A therapist is someone who will take the money I should be using to buy milk for my kids. They will tell me things I already tell myself.”
Nyaboke emphasized that therapy is only useful when one is mentally and emotionally ready. “My brain has not accepted listening to a therapist – I must be ready,” she added.
Her message resonated with many across the country, particularly those who have experienced personal loss. Some fans defended her stance, noting that grief is not a one-size-fits-all process.
One user, nabalayo, wrote: “There’s no name for a parent who loses a child. Whether she’s depressed or not, her pain is valid. Feel seen, Nyaboke. Feel understood.”
Another fan, therebel_child254, commented on the high cost of therapy and the privilege of affording such support. “Therapy is KSh 30k per session. So how much do you think she needs to spend until she’s okay?”
The overwhelming sentiment online was one of empathy and respect for Nyaboke’s approach to healing. Many agreed that mourning should never be rushed or forced into a predefined method. misssharz14 simply wrote: “No mother should ever bury her child.”
Despite her grief, Nyaboke recently shared a lighter moment that captured the resilience of a mother still navigating life. In a humorous post, she shared how her son Ethan often calls saying he misses her—only to eventually ask for money. The post, accompanied by a heartwarming photo, showed that despite the heartbreak, life continues in small, meaningful ways.
Nyaboke’s openness has shed light on the complexities of mental health, cultural expectations, and the deeply human experience of grief. Her defiant yet vulnerable message has inspired others to speak more candidly about pain and healing.
As she continues her journey, one thing remains clear—Nyaboke Moraa is surrounded by a nation that sees her, feels her pain, and is walking beside her, not with pressure, but with prayer.
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