You're Asking the WRONG Questions: "How long will it take to gain [x]"

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/u/DickPushupFTW

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Lately the sub has been flood with posts like:

  • "How long will it take me to gain 1.2" length and 0.7" girth?"
  • "Can I go from 5.5" to 6.3" in 4 months?"
  • "What gains can I expect in a month with XYZ routine?"

Here's the truth:
Obsessing over timelines will guarantee failure.

It's your brain running from uncertainty.
And in PE, very few things are certain.

If you stay obsessing over timelines then you won't make it.
The uncertainty will crush you, demotivate you, drive you to quit.
And the only way to fail at this game is to quit.

So, instead I would like to offer you some alternative questions to ask yourself that are less destructive.

1) If in the future I was bigger than I am now, would that be better than where I am at today?​


This simplifies it and makes it binary. giving you two options:

A) You believe being bigger will improve your life.
So the obvious answer is to continue getting bigger.

B) You don't believe getting bigger will improve your life.
So stop wasting your time on PE.

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2) What could I be doing today to get closer to my PE goal?​


Stop worrying about the future, focus on what is within your control and the actions you can be taking right now.

Most guys asking these timeline obsessed questions haven't even started PE.

If you would just do something, you would be one step closer to that goal instead of wasting time procrastinating action fantasizing about "what could be"... but never will be if you don't do something about it.

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If you want to get bigger, then just start doing it.

Stop overthinking and start taking action.

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Dickspeed Brothers.

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