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/u/Beenie_Baby
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I want to start this off by saying sex with another person isn't an option. I either figure this out myself or I don't. I'm extremely neurotic and socially anxious and unfortunately do not for see a future where I'm comfortable with another person touching me sexually.
Hereβs the situation:
Sometimes I, F22, crave penetration. Not emotionally. Not romantically. Physically. Like my body wants something in there. But I canβt seem to make it happen, and itβs driving me nuts.
I've tried fingers but I have mild sensory issues and the feeling is very weird and foreign on my fingertips which makes it uncomfortable for me. I'd need something that covers them completely to try fingering.
I bought what I consider to be a fairly small dildo. Around half an inch wide diameter. That's certainly been going better but no matter what I do, I can only get it in maybe an inch before this dull burning pain and slight pressure kicks in.
Logically, I know a hole is there. I get my period just fine. So where is the opening? Why canβt I get past this? Itβs like my own anatomy is gaslighting me. Everyone says βif youβre wet and turned on and relaxed it shouldnβt hurt.β But I am all of those things. Still hurts. I've even tried using lube which feels pretty redundant considering how wet I get, and still nothing.
I'm tempted to buy dilators but if a half inch dildo isn't going anywhere that sort of feels like a waste of money. My next genuine idea is to just get plastered and hope the alcohol fills the pain enough for me to actually get somewhere.
Before I indulge that reckless thought, I was wondering if anyone had some advice or similar experience? Positions that feel less painful, techniques, breathing tips... Idk. Anything that helps me the dream of riding my dildo off into the sunset.
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Hereβs the situation:
Sometimes I, F22, crave penetration. Not emotionally. Not romantically. Physically. Like my body wants something in there. But I canβt seem to make it happen, and itβs driving me nuts.
I've tried fingers but I have mild sensory issues and the feeling is very weird and foreign on my fingertips which makes it uncomfortable for me. I'd need something that covers them completely to try fingering.
I bought what I consider to be a fairly small dildo. Around half an inch wide diameter. That's certainly been going better but no matter what I do, I can only get it in maybe an inch before this dull burning pain and slight pressure kicks in.
Logically, I know a hole is there. I get my period just fine. So where is the opening? Why canβt I get past this? Itβs like my own anatomy is gaslighting me. Everyone says βif youβre wet and turned on and relaxed it shouldnβt hurt.β But I am all of those things. Still hurts. I've even tried using lube which feels pretty redundant considering how wet I get, and still nothing.
I'm tempted to buy dilators but if a half inch dildo isn't going anywhere that sort of feels like a waste of money. My next genuine idea is to just get plastered and hope the alcohol fills the pain enough for me to actually get somewhere.
Before I indulge that reckless thought, I was wondering if anyone had some advice or similar experience? Positions that feel less painful, techniques, breathing tips... Idk. Anything that helps me the dream of riding my dildo off into the sunset.
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