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Kingsley Asuamah
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Why Your Imperfections Might Be Your Greatest Gift
Photo by Quang Nguyen Vinh: https://www.pexels.com/photo/woman-making-clay-pot-2166456/
Have you ever felt like youโre not enough?
Not smart enough.
Not talented enough.
Not as perfect as the people around you.
Weโve all been there. And sometimes, those doubts whisper so loudly that we start to believe them.
But what if the very thing you see as your flaw is your greatest contribution?
Let me tell you a story.
The Potter and His Imperfect Creation
Once upon a time, in a quiet village lived an old potter named Ramesh. He was known for shaping the most beautiful clay potsโโโsmooth, strong, flawless.
But among his creations was one that wasโฆ different. A small pot with uneven edges and a tiny crack near its handle. Compared to the others, it seemed clumsy. Useless.
One day, the villagers asked Ramesh to make pots that could carry water from a river far away. When he chose the cracked pot along with two perfect ones, the little pot trembled inside.
Why me? It thought. Iโll only mess this up.
The Burden of Comparison
On the journey back from the river, the cracked pot tried to hold on. But as they walked, water dripped through its crack, leaving a trail of droplets behind.
It felt ashamed.
I canโt even hold water properly. Iโm letting everyone down.
The next day, it tried harder. But again, water leaked out. This time, it apologised to Ramesh.
โIโm not like the others,โ it said. โIโm broken. You should leave me behind.โ
The Unexpected Purpose
But Ramesh didnโt scold it. Instead, he smiled.
โCome,โ he said, โI want to show you something.โ
He led the pot down the same path they had walked every day. And to its surprise, both sides of the road were lined with blooming flowers.
โYou see,โ Ramesh explained, โI knew about your crack. So I planted seeds along this path. And every drop of water you thought you wasted was watering those flowers. You didnโt fail me. You created beauty and life for this village.โ
The Moment of Realisation
For the first time, the little pot felt something it had never felt before: pride.
It realised that its value didnโt lie in being perfect. Its value lay in being itself.
From that day on, the pot no longer compared itself to the flawless ones. Because it finally understood that what it thought was a flaw was actually its gift.
The Lesson for Us
So, let me ask youโโโwhat cracks do you see in yourself?
Do you apologise for them? Hide them?
Do you believe they make you less valuable?
What if those very cracks are watering someone elseโs life?
What if your imperfection is the thing someone else needs to bloom?
We live in a world obsessed with perfectionโโโperfect bodies, perfect careers, perfect Instagram lives. But real impact, real connection, real beautyโโโit often comes from the cracks.
The moral is simple: we all have cracks.
They donโt make us broken. They make us human. And sometimes, they make us extraordinary.
So instead of asking, Whatโs wrong with me? Try asking, What flowers might be growing because of me?
Because your imperfections arenโt holding you back, theyโre carrying life to places you may never see.
Youโre not broken. Youโre watering flowers you donโt even know exist.
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The Cracked Pot was originally published in Long. Sweet. Valuable. on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.
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