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Hey everyone,
Iβve been struggling with something in my relationship, and I could really use some outside perspective.
I (28M) have been with my girlfriend for a while, and Iβve noticed that she masturbates almost every single day. That by itself wouldnβt bother meβmasturbation is normal, and I do it tooβbut the problem is that it seems to be happening instead of us being intimate together.
Even when I express my desire to be with her, she often turns me down. Then, when I leave the house or go do something else, I later find out that sheβs been pleasuring herself. She also uses toys to orgasm, and she has told me sheβs never been able to orgasm from penetration alone. On top of that, I know she usually watches lesbian porn or videos of naked women.
Iβm trying not to take it personally, but Iβd be lying if I said it didnβt make me feel rejected or inadequate. I want to connect with her more often, but it feels like she prefers to do things by herself. I donβt know if this is a sign of a bigger issue in our sex life, her own preferences, or if this is just something thatβs actually pretty common in relationships.
Has anyone else experienced something like this? Is it normal for a partner to masturbate this often and reject intimacy?
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Iβve been struggling with something in my relationship, and I could really use some outside perspective.
I (28M) have been with my girlfriend for a while, and Iβve noticed that she masturbates almost every single day. That by itself wouldnβt bother meβmasturbation is normal, and I do it tooβbut the problem is that it seems to be happening instead of us being intimate together.
Even when I express my desire to be with her, she often turns me down. Then, when I leave the house or go do something else, I later find out that sheβs been pleasuring herself. She also uses toys to orgasm, and she has told me sheβs never been able to orgasm from penetration alone. On top of that, I know she usually watches lesbian porn or videos of naked women.
Iβm trying not to take it personally, but Iβd be lying if I said it didnβt make me feel rejected or inadequate. I want to connect with her more often, but it feels like she prefers to do things by herself. I donβt know if this is a sign of a bigger issue in our sex life, her own preferences, or if this is just something thatβs actually pretty common in relationships.
Has anyone else experienced something like this? Is it normal for a partner to masturbate this often and reject intimacy?
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