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I (f26) have only ever had sex with my first bf of 4 years and itβs stale now, I donβt know how to fix it.
I still need to be a bit tipsy in order to focus on enjoying it (I experience a lot of guilt about it due to religion which Iβm still struggling with). Itβs also usually when I initiate but I donβt drink regularly.
We just get into it, not much foreplay. Funny enough weβve addressed this before but havenβt really done much. I will admit I donβt exactly enjoy making out. I also donβt know what I like.
Heβs really against toys, I donβt enjoy getting head and donβt give it ( mixed feelings about it, sometimes Iβm disgusted with it and other times Iβm too shy)
In my opinion, heβs great at sex, attentive, listens, has stamina. Regularly makes me orgasm when Iβm able to loosen up.
I can also go a while without sex and since we donβt live together, he gets annoyed that Iβm for whatever reasons not ready to rip his clothes off after kissing for a bit but I feel meh about it. I more into it when weβve spent some time together having a good time and emotionally connected. He gets annoyed because he thinks why does it have to take so long, he says Iβm supposed to just want to anyway since he is my bf and I am attracted to him. We only see each other like twice a week because heβs always doing something, even if it isnβt work he just somehow ends up finding himself more work to do. Iβve given up trying to get him to just spend time alone. Weβre living 2 separate lives and occasionally seeing each other. Is it normal we can go all day without talking to each other?
Also Iβd like tips on how to please him, besides riding and head.
How do I spice up my sex life?
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I still need to be a bit tipsy in order to focus on enjoying it (I experience a lot of guilt about it due to religion which Iβm still struggling with). Itβs also usually when I initiate but I donβt drink regularly.
We just get into it, not much foreplay. Funny enough weβve addressed this before but havenβt really done much. I will admit I donβt exactly enjoy making out. I also donβt know what I like.
Heβs really against toys, I donβt enjoy getting head and donβt give it ( mixed feelings about it, sometimes Iβm disgusted with it and other times Iβm too shy)
In my opinion, heβs great at sex, attentive, listens, has stamina. Regularly makes me orgasm when Iβm able to loosen up.
I can also go a while without sex and since we donβt live together, he gets annoyed that Iβm for whatever reasons not ready to rip his clothes off after kissing for a bit but I feel meh about it. I more into it when weβve spent some time together having a good time and emotionally connected. He gets annoyed because he thinks why does it have to take so long, he says Iβm supposed to just want to anyway since he is my bf and I am attracted to him. We only see each other like twice a week because heβs always doing something, even if it isnβt work he just somehow ends up finding himself more work to do. Iβve given up trying to get him to just spend time alone. Weβre living 2 separate lives and occasionally seeing each other. Is it normal we can go all day without talking to each other?
Also Iβd like tips on how to please him, besides riding and head.
How do I spice up my sex life?
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