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I [M 23] have been part of a college friend group for 8 months. In the friend group is someone [F 19] I like. The thing is, ever since I interacted with her, she has tended to make sexual jokes. At first, they were subtle, but over time, they became more and more sexual, even after I told one of her friends to tell her to calm it down. It doesn't help that a lot of the people in the friend group say that this is something she does specifically to me.
Fast forward to last night, I finally got some courage about trying to ask her about sex, but before I asked her, I talked to one of her friends, not just to get a second opinion, but also so that I know how to ask that question to her because she dealt with a very nasty individual in the past and I didn't want to do or say anything that might remind her of that person. However, because of my autism, specifically the hyper-empath part, I physically struggled to talk about it to her friend, mainly because I don't want to ruin what relationship we have.
So while I still plan on asking her, I am afraid that I might hurt her feelings as a result of asking. Is this a question I should even ask at all, and if yes, how do I ask it in a way that doesn't lead to any or minimal drama?
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Fast forward to last night, I finally got some courage about trying to ask her about sex, but before I asked her, I talked to one of her friends, not just to get a second opinion, but also so that I know how to ask that question to her because she dealt with a very nasty individual in the past and I didn't want to do or say anything that might remind her of that person. However, because of my autism, specifically the hyper-empath part, I physically struggled to talk about it to her friend, mainly because I don't want to ruin what relationship we have.
So while I still plan on asking her, I am afraid that I might hurt her feelings as a result of asking. Is this a question I should even ask at all, and if yes, how do I ask it in a way that doesn't lead to any or minimal drama?
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