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/u/DeluluButDisciplined
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Iβm 24F with a high sex drive, and I genuinely enjoy wild, rough sex. The problem is that it usually makes guys finish way faster than Iβd like, and I struggle to slow down or pace myself. Because of this, I feel like it prevents me from forming deeper connections and it becomes more about the physical intensity than intimacy.
Iβve been abstaining for a while because I want to be more intentional, but even just being around a man Iβm interested in brings up really strong, βferalβ thoughts that are hard to manage.
What I really want is balance: to enjoy sex the way I like it, but also to create a meaningful connection and not feel like it undermines me being taken seriously. My fear is that once I let someone see my sexual side, they wonβt view me as relationship material anymore, and the connection will fade.
Any advice on how to pace myself, match my partnerβs energy, and still enjoy sex while building genuine intimacy?
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Iβve been abstaining for a while because I want to be more intentional, but even just being around a man Iβm interested in brings up really strong, βferalβ thoughts that are hard to manage.
What I really want is balance: to enjoy sex the way I like it, but also to create a meaningful connection and not feel like it undermines me being taken seriously. My fear is that once I let someone see my sexual side, they wonβt view me as relationship material anymore, and the connection will fade.
Any advice on how to pace myself, match my partnerβs energy, and still enjoy sex while building genuine intimacy?
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