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So this is embarrassing. My husband (40) and I (33) have been together a few years and still have regular sex. Itβs slowly going down in frequency to 1-2 times a week and Iβm going insane. All our sex is almost exclusively based on an unofficial βfree useβ agreement initiated by him. Lately, Iβm waiting patiently to get f*ed and we just play phone games and watch tv until going to sleep.
Heβs affectionate with cuddling, kissing etc and we have a habit of me playing with his package before bed. Playing with his d before bed is relaxing for him and like a comfort blanket for me and does frequently lead to sex. I noticed when playing with his package at night he hasnβt even gotten hard the past couple of days.
Iβm afraid of initiating and getting rejected. I never learned how to be seductive or sexy, so I donβt know what to do. I never had a βhoeβ phase so Iβm just not good at that stuff. Iβm adventurous in bed just inexperienced. Me being topless or in scant outfits leads to appreciation but not sex like it used to.
I donβt know if heβs tired, losing his sex drive or just not into me anymore. Iβve had playful convos about if heβs attracted to me and he consistently calls me beautiful, hot, sexy etc and seems sincere.
I guess my question here is how to seduce him when he may not necessarily have sex on the brain� How do I handle it if he does reject me?
I think weβre entering a new relationship stage and Iβm struggling. Any advice?
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Heβs affectionate with cuddling, kissing etc and we have a habit of me playing with his package before bed. Playing with his d before bed is relaxing for him and like a comfort blanket for me and does frequently lead to sex. I noticed when playing with his package at night he hasnβt even gotten hard the past couple of days.
Iβm afraid of initiating and getting rejected. I never learned how to be seductive or sexy, so I donβt know what to do. I never had a βhoeβ phase so Iβm just not good at that stuff. Iβm adventurous in bed just inexperienced. Me being topless or in scant outfits leads to appreciation but not sex like it used to.
I donβt know if heβs tired, losing his sex drive or just not into me anymore. Iβve had playful convos about if heβs attracted to me and he consistently calls me beautiful, hot, sexy etc and seems sincere.
I guess my question here is how to seduce him when he may not necessarily have sex on the brain� How do I handle it if he does reject me?
I think weβre entering a new relationship stage and Iβm struggling. Any advice?
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