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I'm 19M, and I don't know if this is discussed enough but for an only son who's unfortunate enough to be born into this country with a deadbeat/runaway father, how do I deal with high expectations from my mum and sis once I start earning?
It's a very delicate issue I ask myself once or twice because I still live with them, I've been fortunate enough to earn decent amounts online which have allowed me to do things I wouldn't normally be able to do for them, which also allows me to fend for myself without depending on my mum
But I'm scared. Sometimes there's alot of pressure for me to do this or that and alot of times I have to be clear to them that I can't do everything for them while still trying to look out for myself, also knowing if I go back to zero they wouldn't look at me the same. It's really scary.
They all expect me to be this quick problem solver in the house but I'm also trying to package myself too. I can't help but notice the snide remarks anytime I buy something nice for myself.
I see the signs and again, it's scary
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It's a very delicate issue I ask myself once or twice because I still live with them, I've been fortunate enough to earn decent amounts online which have allowed me to do things I wouldn't normally be able to do for them, which also allows me to fend for myself without depending on my mum
But I'm scared. Sometimes there's alot of pressure for me to do this or that and alot of times I have to be clear to them that I can't do everything for them while still trying to look out for myself, also knowing if I go back to zero they wouldn't look at me the same. It's really scary.
They all expect me to be this quick problem solver in the house but I'm also trying to package myself too. I can't help but notice the snide remarks anytime I buy something nice for myself.
I see the signs and again, it's scary
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