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I was a virgin until a month ago and I met this woman who is a little older than I am, but she’s a really cool person. She’s super nice, understanding, and patient. She said she didn’t mind that I was new and said she’d make my first good and guide me.
She definitely did that, and did a lot of the work the first time and I didn’t finish the first two times. Eventually I found that going faster worked, but I’ll be honest it was new and I got in my head a little too much.
Im really big on kissing, wandering hands, and being vocal. (Not necessarily moaning, I mean little words here and there) It can be awkward sometimes because we have a small height difference, and I have to learn different angles, but I’ve recently had some issues mentally.
She’s more experienced and has shared general stories of her being really high energy and fun, and I guess Im feeling really down and insecure about that. I guess I’ve felt very “close” and “safe” when we’ve had sex, but it’s never been “intense” or “high energy”. Think more so deep eye contact and slower pace than fucking each others brains out.
How can I address this in a positive way? I don’t feel very masculine and I know she hasn’t finished with me so I feel a little insecure about not being able to “satisfy a woman” so to speak. I definitely feel relaxed and my anxiety goes away when we are together, but I can just tell my body and more primal side wants to come out, and I sort of want hers to as well.
Does anyone have advice for younger guy trying to navigate these new feelings, sensations and make sure I do not mention or state anything in wrong terms to her or frame it weird myself?
Deep down I just want to say “can you just fuck the shit out of me like you would to guys in your past?“ but that seems like a can of worms I need to open a better way.
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She definitely did that, and did a lot of the work the first time and I didn’t finish the first two times. Eventually I found that going faster worked, but I’ll be honest it was new and I got in my head a little too much.
Im really big on kissing, wandering hands, and being vocal. (Not necessarily moaning, I mean little words here and there) It can be awkward sometimes because we have a small height difference, and I have to learn different angles, but I’ve recently had some issues mentally.
She’s more experienced and has shared general stories of her being really high energy and fun, and I guess Im feeling really down and insecure about that. I guess I’ve felt very “close” and “safe” when we’ve had sex, but it’s never been “intense” or “high energy”. Think more so deep eye contact and slower pace than fucking each others brains out.
How can I address this in a positive way? I don’t feel very masculine and I know she hasn’t finished with me so I feel a little insecure about not being able to “satisfy a woman” so to speak. I definitely feel relaxed and my anxiety goes away when we are together, but I can just tell my body and more primal side wants to come out, and I sort of want hers to as well.
Does anyone have advice for younger guy trying to navigate these new feelings, sensations and make sure I do not mention or state anything in wrong terms to her or frame it weird myself?
Deep down I just want to say “can you just fuck the shit out of me like you would to guys in your past?“ but that seems like a can of worms I need to open a better way.
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