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Iโm a 21 year old woman and Iโve never had sex or messed around romantically with anyone. Never had a first kiss, never even held hands with a boy. Itโs not that there wasnโt opportunities, i was raised super religious (no sex before marriage, family wouldnโt even talk about what periods were and I never got the โtalkโ). So I was pretty scared of boys for the reason of accidentally doing something wrong. I also didnโt wanna kiss anybody I had a chance to because I didnโt see myself marrying them and I was always taught that was the only motivation for sexual desires.
Anyways, Iโve been out of my parents house for around a year and want to finally experiment and feel confident. Iโve downloaded tinder and hinge in the past and flirted, even crossed into a bit of sexting territory but always got scared by the idea of me being sexual and ghosted or just ignored the person. The thing is I feel like a need a bit of a hoe phase lol. I want to have sex and do other stuff but Iโm just like scared and my old religious shame comes creeping in.
I was at a hostel awhile back and some guys were hitting on me (I was wearing a pretty low cut top and wanted the attention I canโt lie) but even with a few drinks in me I just felt weird. Like I can imagine scenarios and please myself but whenever the chance to do anything with a guy arises idk how to do it.
Anyway would be great if anybody has some tips for putting myself out there and getting more comfortable. I want to challenge myself to go on some dates but idk.
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Anyways, Iโve been out of my parents house for around a year and want to finally experiment and feel confident. Iโve downloaded tinder and hinge in the past and flirted, even crossed into a bit of sexting territory but always got scared by the idea of me being sexual and ghosted or just ignored the person. The thing is I feel like a need a bit of a hoe phase lol. I want to have sex and do other stuff but Iโm just like scared and my old religious shame comes creeping in.
I was at a hostel awhile back and some guys were hitting on me (I was wearing a pretty low cut top and wanted the attention I canโt lie) but even with a few drinks in me I just felt weird. Like I can imagine scenarios and please myself but whenever the chance to do anything with a guy arises idk how to do it.
Anyway would be great if anybody has some tips for putting myself out there and getting more comfortable. I want to challenge myself to go on some dates but idk.
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