Has anyone fallen for someone who shows care but admits they can’t reciprocate feelings?

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I caught strong feelings for someone who openly told me that she can’t reciprocate feelings or be in a relationship, yet her actions kept showing care and attention. She’d check up on me, bring me food without me asking, send me goodnight texts, and even get worried if I didn’t text her. It really messed with my head because her words and her actions didn’t align.

It makes me wonder β€” why does this happen? Why would someone put in so much care and attention if they don’t want to be with you? Is it just their personality, maybe β€œmotherly instincts,” fear of being taken advantage of, or are they emotionally unavailable but still crave connection?

I’ve recently stepped back for my own sanity, but I’d love to hear if anyone else has gone through this. Did you figure out the cause behind it? How did you handle it?

Thanks in advance

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