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hey guys!! glad to be entering this community !! i wanna introduce myself since this seems like a cool and interesting community and iโd like to keep you guys updated. iโd also like to give some info about me !!
iโve known about the PE community since i was about 16 or so. the thought of wanting to be bigger went through my head and seemed enticing but i was always really scared due to injuries and horror stories i saw. i was too scared to actually start but i did experiment with some jelqing here and there but kinda dropped it and never actually took it seriously (only done it maybe 5-10 times in my life for like 15 minutes). additionally, i never really had a reason too since i already had a pretty good size to work with, but the only thing that did slightly rub me the wrong way was when my first ex said i was โi donโt know, 6 inchesโ while knowing very well i was like 7+. i kinda let it go as she had never really seen any other penises in real life and honestly i paid little mind to it. as time went on, i think i may have rotted my brain on porn and slowly got a little insecure but also knew i was factually very much on the bigger side. high school went on, i broke up with her, got with other people, some complimented my size, got back with her, broke up with her for a final time, and eventually met my now current girlfriend. things with her have been awesome, we understand each other really well, have similar interests, grown closer, etc. however during one of our first hookups (before we dated officially) i asked the question of whether i was the biggest sheโs had since we were talking about girth and she said big girth doesnโt necessarily feel the best (stupid of me, i know i just opened pandoraโs box) and she hesitated a bit after saying that in terms of length yes, but โgirthโฆmmmโฆ yeah no i donโt knowโ. this stuck with me for a while. mind you, this happened in may of 2024 and it is now 2025. i convinced myself that maybe she didnโt mean that ? maybe she went into with no foreplay as she had previously mentioned. it did however stick with me and every now and then iโd catch myself asking her, โhey are you sure iโm the biggest youโve had ??โ after i had caught her in some white lies in the past. and now this i can understand was extremely stupid of me and i basically psyched myself out for no apparent reason, even though both me and her knew i was big. i eventually broke up with her for a bit because i saw she still followed someone she hooked up with that she never told me about, and was apparently one of her brothers friends who came over once and whom i dapped up while greeting. she never really had a friendship with him after hooking up and especially after dating me, but this all just rubbed me the wrong way, especially because i told her i had certain boundaries about past partners, some due to my own experiences. we worked it out, got back together, but it still remained in the back of my mind. recently, weโve been having many more honest conversations with one another and they have helped a ton! however, the topic of this guy came up and i eventually brought up the statement she made in May of 2024. she then told me that the girthy guy was him and that once again made me feel kinda odd. on the one hand i felt is was weird she didnโt wanna keep going into much detail about his privacy because she wouldnโt like the same to be done to her, which is understandable except she hasnโt always been a champion of morality, so it came across as an excuse to prevent me from asking questions, though it could be seen as a boundary and i can understand to a certain degree. however, i still couldnโt get over the white lies sheโs been telling, which granted, maybe were for the better? but unfortunately, im too inquisitive for my own good and just had to keep digging. did she think i wasnโt confident enough to handle the truth ? is she right ? donโt know but it made feel odd with my own penis
after what feels like a long ass introduction, here are some (slightly half-assed) stats of where i start my journey
BPEL : 7.5 inches Erect Girth: 5.75-5.8 (little over the 5.75 mark or like the next line over) Flaccid BP Length: 4.5 inches
with this out of the way, some equipment i got were Air Pump with gauge Cock Rings for clamping
iโm still confused as to what exactly interval pumping is, but i think for girth i will be doing pumping in sets of 4 x 5 minutes per day for 20 minutes total (maybe 3 sets for the first bit) at about 3-4 on the pressure gauge
iโm still considering what i should do for clamping and any tips are highly appreciated
as for length, iโm guessing i should just do manuals since im a little scared to use extenders, though i guess i could also pump using smaller diameter cylinders, but again tips are welcome
had to edit again, but i also wanna do some Angion Method, even if itโs only for EQ
overall, im looking to aim for 8.5 BPEL and 6.5 Erect Girth. i know this is doable and honestly im not too worried about length, but id still like to incorporate it into my journey. overall id like to gain +- an inch to both
it sucks that i feel this way because of my partners past, and honestly i really dont have much to worry about since sheโs stated ive been the best person sheโs had sex with and only person sheโs orgasmed with, but i guess itโs almost like a primal thing to just wanna be bigger and better, even though im still pretty big
regardless, im super excited to be starting my journey since this community has given much more hope to prove something to myself. iโd also like to add that ill be taking the gym and MMA more seriously since i think its two of my hobbies that could make the journey better, along with just living a healthier lifestyle.
any tips and advice for gaining length and girth along with different routines are highly appreciated and welcome!!
edit: please do let me know if i can add pictures for proof and also if this is the right flair!! also iโm excited to get to know some of you !!
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iโve known about the PE community since i was about 16 or so. the thought of wanting to be bigger went through my head and seemed enticing but i was always really scared due to injuries and horror stories i saw. i was too scared to actually start but i did experiment with some jelqing here and there but kinda dropped it and never actually took it seriously (only done it maybe 5-10 times in my life for like 15 minutes). additionally, i never really had a reason too since i already had a pretty good size to work with, but the only thing that did slightly rub me the wrong way was when my first ex said i was โi donโt know, 6 inchesโ while knowing very well i was like 7+. i kinda let it go as she had never really seen any other penises in real life and honestly i paid little mind to it. as time went on, i think i may have rotted my brain on porn and slowly got a little insecure but also knew i was factually very much on the bigger side. high school went on, i broke up with her, got with other people, some complimented my size, got back with her, broke up with her for a final time, and eventually met my now current girlfriend. things with her have been awesome, we understand each other really well, have similar interests, grown closer, etc. however during one of our first hookups (before we dated officially) i asked the question of whether i was the biggest sheโs had since we were talking about girth and she said big girth doesnโt necessarily feel the best (stupid of me, i know i just opened pandoraโs box) and she hesitated a bit after saying that in terms of length yes, but โgirthโฆmmmโฆ yeah no i donโt knowโ. this stuck with me for a while. mind you, this happened in may of 2024 and it is now 2025. i convinced myself that maybe she didnโt mean that ? maybe she went into with no foreplay as she had previously mentioned. it did however stick with me and every now and then iโd catch myself asking her, โhey are you sure iโm the biggest youโve had ??โ after i had caught her in some white lies in the past. and now this i can understand was extremely stupid of me and i basically psyched myself out for no apparent reason, even though both me and her knew i was big. i eventually broke up with her for a bit because i saw she still followed someone she hooked up with that she never told me about, and was apparently one of her brothers friends who came over once and whom i dapped up while greeting. she never really had a friendship with him after hooking up and especially after dating me, but this all just rubbed me the wrong way, especially because i told her i had certain boundaries about past partners, some due to my own experiences. we worked it out, got back together, but it still remained in the back of my mind. recently, weโve been having many more honest conversations with one another and they have helped a ton! however, the topic of this guy came up and i eventually brought up the statement she made in May of 2024. she then told me that the girthy guy was him and that once again made me feel kinda odd. on the one hand i felt is was weird she didnโt wanna keep going into much detail about his privacy because she wouldnโt like the same to be done to her, which is understandable except she hasnโt always been a champion of morality, so it came across as an excuse to prevent me from asking questions, though it could be seen as a boundary and i can understand to a certain degree. however, i still couldnโt get over the white lies sheโs been telling, which granted, maybe were for the better? but unfortunately, im too inquisitive for my own good and just had to keep digging. did she think i wasnโt confident enough to handle the truth ? is she right ? donโt know but it made feel odd with my own penis
after what feels like a long ass introduction, here are some (slightly half-assed) stats of where i start my journey
BPEL : 7.5 inches Erect Girth: 5.75-5.8 (little over the 5.75 mark or like the next line over) Flaccid BP Length: 4.5 inches
with this out of the way, some equipment i got were Air Pump with gauge Cock Rings for clamping
iโm still confused as to what exactly interval pumping is, but i think for girth i will be doing pumping in sets of 4 x 5 minutes per day for 20 minutes total (maybe 3 sets for the first bit) at about 3-4 on the pressure gauge
iโm still considering what i should do for clamping and any tips are highly appreciated
as for length, iโm guessing i should just do manuals since im a little scared to use extenders, though i guess i could also pump using smaller diameter cylinders, but again tips are welcome
had to edit again, but i also wanna do some Angion Method, even if itโs only for EQ
overall, im looking to aim for 8.5 BPEL and 6.5 Erect Girth. i know this is doable and honestly im not too worried about length, but id still like to incorporate it into my journey. overall id like to gain +- an inch to both
it sucks that i feel this way because of my partners past, and honestly i really dont have much to worry about since sheโs stated ive been the best person sheโs had sex with and only person sheโs orgasmed with, but i guess itโs almost like a primal thing to just wanna be bigger and better, even though im still pretty big
regardless, im super excited to be starting my journey since this community has given much more hope to prove something to myself. iโd also like to add that ill be taking the gym and MMA more seriously since i think its two of my hobbies that could make the journey better, along with just living a healthier lifestyle.
any tips and advice for gaining length and girth along with different routines are highly appreciated and welcome!!
edit: please do let me know if i can add pictures for proof and also if this is the right flair!! also iโm excited to get to know some of you !!
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