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Hi everyone I need advice on what to do. Iโm sorry itโs a longer story but please offer any advice on how to move forward.
My wife basically tells her best friend group chat that my you know what is โnot bigโ.
Back story: Our sex life is really active and she does finish 90% of the time we are intimate so I figured I must be doing something right because I know I donโt have too much to offer down there. I try to make up for it in other ways which she enjoys and she does really seem to be into it all and has shown she wants to have sex with me. Now to the problem:
I was looking for a picture of my wife and I on our first date 3 years ago. Long story short, I came across messages between her and her best friends talking about the first time we had sex. I saw a message saying that she only enjoyed being on top and that she really didnโt feel a lot in missionary. Her friend then responds with โwell whatโs the sizeโ and she says โNot bigโฆโ. Again Iโm not delusional, I know I donโt have a large size down there or anything like that. Iโm not going to lie though seeing my wife say that was rough. This got me to thinking about whether or not she has been faking it in bed for the past 3 years. She always asks to be in either doggy or cowgirl and when we do missionary she does ask me to use my finger also which I guess now makes sense why.
My dilemma is she likes to say โyouโre dk is so goodโ and the occasional says โfuck itโs bigโ which I never really liked because again I know Iโm not and now reading this Iโm like sheโs clearly not being truthful. Now when I hear her say anything about my dk, I kinda get down and stop enjoying it because I now know what she really thinks.
Iโm sorry I know itโs a lot but I just donโt know what to do. Do I confront her? If I do how do I bring up the fact that I saw those messages? Do I try to bring it up and hope she says something? Please any real advice would help because itโs eating away at me. Thank you all in advance.
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My wife basically tells her best friend group chat that my you know what is โnot bigโ.
Back story: Our sex life is really active and she does finish 90% of the time we are intimate so I figured I must be doing something right because I know I donโt have too much to offer down there. I try to make up for it in other ways which she enjoys and she does really seem to be into it all and has shown she wants to have sex with me. Now to the problem:
I was looking for a picture of my wife and I on our first date 3 years ago. Long story short, I came across messages between her and her best friends talking about the first time we had sex. I saw a message saying that she only enjoyed being on top and that she really didnโt feel a lot in missionary. Her friend then responds with โwell whatโs the sizeโ and she says โNot bigโฆโ. Again Iโm not delusional, I know I donโt have a large size down there or anything like that. Iโm not going to lie though seeing my wife say that was rough. This got me to thinking about whether or not she has been faking it in bed for the past 3 years. She always asks to be in either doggy or cowgirl and when we do missionary she does ask me to use my finger also which I guess now makes sense why.
My dilemma is she likes to say โyouโre dk is so goodโ and the occasional says โfuck itโs bigโ which I never really liked because again I know Iโm not and now reading this Iโm like sheโs clearly not being truthful. Now when I hear her say anything about my dk, I kinda get down and stop enjoying it because I now know what she really thinks.
Iโm sorry I know itโs a lot but I just donโt know what to do. Do I confront her? If I do how do I bring up the fact that I saw those messages? Do I try to bring it up and hope she says something? Please any real advice would help because itโs eating away at me. Thank you all in advance.
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