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I'm a straight 23 year old man. I am a virgin and have no experience with women. I have been extremely overweight my whole life( currently over 400lbs but activitly losing weight) and have avoided dating/hooking up due to insecurity. I'm learning to take steps to better myself and eventually start dating. But I don't realistically see this happening till I lose significant weight which will take time( I have 2 years in mind). By that time I will be 25 and lacking a lot of experience. I fear that my being bad in bed due to lack of experience will hinder dating. I know it's cliche but I'm also not well endowed. I'm perfectly average but currently with fat pad it looks tiny. I know size is not everything but it is a huge insecurity still. I also cum extremely quick when I masturbate which is a bigger concern.
So do you think it's possible for anyone to learn to be good in bed if they are willing to try? I would hate to be unable to please a potential future partner. Would being bad in bed in my mid to late 20s be a huge dealbreaker? Along with general fitness and weightloss is there anything i can do to help be a better potential lover? I would really appreciate any responses.
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I'm a straight 23 year old man. I am a virgin and have no experience with women. I have been extremely overweight my whole life( currently over 400lbs but activitly losing weight) and have avoided dating/hooking up due to insecurity. I'm learning to take steps to better myself and eventually start dating. But I don't realistically see this happening till I lose significant weight which will take time( I have 2 years in mind). By that time I will be 25 and lacking a lot of experience. I fear that my being bad in bed due to lack of experience will hinder dating. I know it's cliche but I'm also not well endowed. I'm perfectly average but currently with fat pad it looks tiny. I know size is not everything but it is a huge insecurity still. I also cum extremely quick when I masturbate which is a bigger concern.
So do you think it's possible for anyone to learn to be good in bed if they are willing to try? I would hate to be unable to please a potential future partner. Would being bad in bed in my mid to late 20s be a huge dealbreaker? Along with general fitness and weightloss is there anything i can do to help be a better potential lover? I would really appreciate any responses.
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