Boyfriend focuses on me more than himself

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Hello,

I've been with a 36-year-old man for 7 months, I'm 30. He had erectile difficulties at the beginning of our relationship, linked to taking antidepressants and a history of drug use. Since then, things have gone much better and we're enjoying a fulfilling sexuality.

However, I've noticed that he often wants to please me more than he lets me please him.

It's not uncommon for him to take the initiative and turn up the heat just to take care of me and give me multiple orgasms (he's a bit of an obsessive at times like this). When I want to reciprocate by giving him oral sex, for example, he refuses and says he only wants to take care of me. At first I thought he wasn't turned on by me lol. But at the same time, during those moments, it's very fusional. I feel his breathing getting heavier, he doesn't necessarily get hard but seems extremely excited by my pleasure, as if he's β€œstudying” it. He tells me to let go, to take my orgasm "strongly", and when I come, he checks in order to see if I can have another one. It turns him on a lot, he bites me gently, kisses me deeply, sometimes it's like we're merging, there is so much more intensity than during PIV (that he enjoys a lot too though but the mood is totally different).

It's the first time I've come across a boy like this. So of course it's very pleasant, but is it hiding something ? Could it be some kind of kink ?

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