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I think one of the reasons why itβs hard for me to cum during head or fingering is because first of all, I canβt wrap my head around the fact that the guy genuinely likes it. Iβve been with eaters, and guys who claimed to like that, but in the back of my mind, I feel like it must bother/tire them at some point to give head or DJ on my clit for like 15+ min straight.
The other reason is that iβm kinda insecure about my private parts. Iβm a brownskin black woman and my body is even overall slightly lighter than my face, but my vulva is significantly darker. iβve tried lots of things. waxing, moisturizing, vitamin C, kojic acid. the hyperpigmentation wonβt change. it feels like my vulva has been burned and I canβt wrap my head around the fact that a guy might find my vulva attractive. I donβt think i have a pretty pussy. I have asymmetrical lips as well, with one small labia and one bigger labia. the external part is super dark and then when your spread it itβs super pink. I find it weird. anyhow, I wouldnβt call my pussy pretty. Is that something that makes me suffer in my daily life ? No. But is that why iβm uncomfortable with receiving pleasure, yes, plays a lot into it.
If anyone has tips to overcome these two ideas, Iβd appreciate it !
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The other reason is that iβm kinda insecure about my private parts. Iβm a brownskin black woman and my body is even overall slightly lighter than my face, but my vulva is significantly darker. iβve tried lots of things. waxing, moisturizing, vitamin C, kojic acid. the hyperpigmentation wonβt change. it feels like my vulva has been burned and I canβt wrap my head around the fact that a guy might find my vulva attractive. I donβt think i have a pretty pussy. I have asymmetrical lips as well, with one small labia and one bigger labia. the external part is super dark and then when your spread it itβs super pink. I find it weird. anyhow, I wouldnβt call my pussy pretty. Is that something that makes me suffer in my daily life ? No. But is that why iβm uncomfortable with receiving pleasure, yes, plays a lot into it.
If anyone has tips to overcome these two ideas, Iβd appreciate it !
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