Maybe I am Petty? Idk - r/Kenya

I person been successful a narration for the past 6 years, and we person had our stock of dramas. I marque definite erstwhile I get thing for myself I get 1 for my important other, immoderate clip backmost helium was wanted to bid perfume from extracurricular KE, and erstwhile I asked him if they would travel successful a brace helium said no, helium wanted to get lone 1 for himself, good it stung, and I unopen down, aboriginal connected helium said helium wouldnt bid his due to the fact that helium realised helium was being selfish.He precocious secured a occupation aft struggling for long. I person been holding the fort, not that I americium complaining.

(For context: I enactment highly agelong hours, and lone get 3 offdays successful 2 weeks,, those are 6 offdays per month, I americium introverted truthful during this days I mostly bash laundry, ticker a podcats and sleep. Because we dont corent we effort to conscionable during this 3 days,, and we person a regularisation that those 3 days are strictly for us. This is wherever the contented comes in, helium gets location during these days astatine astir 1 am, erstwhile I americium already asleep. He complains I americium not giving him attraction erstwhile helium is talking to me, caput you immoderate days I person to beryllium up by 5 americium truthful arsenic to get to enactment by 7 am, and I timepiece retired astatine 9pm, get location by 1030pm/11 astatine times. Sometimes helium cancels connected maine saying its already excessively late. good cheating is retired of the books I cognize helium ain't doing that.
So contiguous helium canceled connected maine again, this indispensable beryllium his,, God cognize however galore times helium cancels, reason? Ameitiwa signifier town. Well I americium not definite if I tin telephone this snapping but , I told him that the relaationship is implicit due to the fact that I cant support connected being an aft thought, good helium brags to his friends however helium got a chile who understands his, having successful caput the adjacent clip we shall adjacent person clip for each different is commencement of adjacent month, successful my caput I kinda decided its not worthy it anymore to support asking for the barest of minimums,,ama I was being petty, due to the fact that aft ending it via text, helium said I americium overeacting. Life has been trying to bushed maine down finacially, mentally, and the spot I see "home" choosing to person precocious nighttime amusive and I tin hold was possibly my past straw. Am I being reasonable?

P/S the travel mightiness not beryllium consistent. Apologies successful Advance