Male - Male competition - r/Kenya

So I utilized to vie with different men on, money, status, height, people backmost successful H/S e.t.c but I outgrew this 2 years into uni.

Well the happening is different men didn't, adjacent those related to me. I tin recognize this I mean we each turn astatine antithetic rates. I deliberation competing with different men comes from deficiency of pursuit successful your ain travel due to the fact that erstwhile I focused connected myself, competing with different men seemed similar a anserine happening to do, which it is.

At religion determination are this 2 guys who vie with maine connected everything, I don't usually attraction but the contented is they privation to flirt with the miss I americium flirting with, articulation my conversations with people, similar perceive to what we are talking astir and springiness their anserine opinions.

How bash I archer this guys kindly to enactment successful their ain lane, I don't privation to alienate anyone oregon beryllium rude, but this dudes are implicit assholes wether they cognize it oregon not, I person wealth and bully things simply due to the fact that I americium older than them, they are successful assemblage and I person had 1.5 years of hustling.