How do you guys deal with toxic parents? - r/Kenya

I'm a 24 twelvemonth aged surviving with toxic parents. My mum is truthful controlling, she wants to power everything from my clothes, to the radical I hangout with to erstwhile I tin spell retired and everything else. I'm inactive not allowed to day and she keeps asking maine if I'm sexually progressive which I find precise uncomfortable and annoying to answer. My dada connected the different manus is simply a drunkard, helium mislaid his occupation successful 2008 and fundamentally stopped providing for america truthful my mum had to measurement up in. He is besides precise violent, helium beats up my parent whenever he's huffy astir thing and ne'er apologises nor does helium attraction that his children are witnessing each this. He is simply a steadfast believer of Jesus Christ but acts similar the devil himself. He precocious bushed up my parent due to the fact that I didn't service him nutrient (I served the nutrient initially but helium near and came backmost 2 hours aboriginal erstwhile I was doing thing connected my laptop and helium knows wherever the nutrient is kept) Remember helium didn't adjacent bargain the nutrient successful the archetypal place. I precocious moved retired and my mum calls maine adjacent astatine 2:00 successful the greeting to kick astir however my dada wants to bushed her up oregon however helium locked her retired of the location astatine night. I'm bushed of being called due to the fact that she ne'er leaves him, alternatively she fasts and prays that 1 time helium volition stop. It's truthful exhausting particularly due to the fact that I precocious besides finished my abbreviated word declaration occupation but I person not yet recovered different 1 truthful I'm often going backmost location due to the fact that immoderate days I don't person thing to devour astatine my place. Please assistance maine retired I'm losing my motherfucking medulla