Becoming a better man - r/Kenya

This is 1 of those random bursts of 3AM motivation. But to my chap 18 to 23 twelvemonth aged guys person you ever felt similar you’re increasing up, similar responsibilities are starting to deed you… but you’re not truly stepping up to them? Like you’re conscionable coasting, unmotivated, stuck successful this weird abstraction wherever thing seems to beryllium moving? You cognize you privation to beryllium amended but you support falling into patterns of self-sabotage, distractions oregon adjacent self-harm.

I’m speaking from experience. I’ve been feeling this impulse to modulation from being a teenage lad to becoming a antheral not successful presumption of age, but mentally. And erstwhile I accidental “man,” I don’t mean the reddish pill, Andrew Tate version. I mean a antheral who’s grounded. Someone who walks into a country and carries himself with maturity. A feline who knows what helium wants, who’s confident, reliable, intentional.

But lately, I’ve realized I’ve been stagnant. I procrastinate a lot. I don’t ever travel done connected the goals I set. So if this resonates with you, if you’ve been feeling the same, I’ve been reasoning astir starting a Discord server. A abstraction wherever we tin clasp each different accountable. Where we speech astir existent stuff: life, relationships, career, money, addictions, whatever. A abstraction to physique ourselves up together.

I chose this circumstantial property radical due to the fact that I consciousness similar we’d each subordinate much to each other’s struggles and experiences. If this sounds similar thing you request oregon privation to beryllium portion of, deed maine up. Let’s turn together.