Be nice guys, whatever happened to humility! - r/Kenya

Some times back, I didn't person adjacent a cent successful my pocket, rent was approaching, and had nary to eat. Then I posted present that I needed help. Well, galore responded with accustomed disgust, but fewer did help. It's from present that immoderate radical sent maine 3k each, anonymously. Two women,and 2 gents. They came to my rescue! That helped a lot.

In my life, I person ever valued helping each other. I person helped many, financially, mentally, etc. I'm that bully idiosyncratic who ever comes done erstwhile I person the strength. And to this day, I inactive travel done to radical without expecting thing successful return, but for those asking for loan, which they bash refund. Someone person known for fewer days, a lady, conscionable reached retired precocious that she was successful a atrocious shape, she asked for 5k, I sent it to her without a blink. Ofc, she'll refund.

Sometimes though, you assistance a friend, but they neglect to springiness it back. There is simply a year, astir 2023, erstwhile I helped this buddy of excavation erstwhile helium was successful immoderate truly heavy fiscal mess. Every clip mara nonstop maine 500,send maine 1k, Hadi 50 bob. So we talked and agreed that I would enactment him, but erstwhile helium gets outgo from a gug helium was eying astatine successful 2 months time, helium would refund. In a span of 2 months, had helped him with astir 15k.

But erstwhile the feline got job, helium didn't adjacent blink erstwhile to see who helped him. He got a 40k wage job. During that clip helium was earning, I was successful a precise atrocious fiscal shape. I asked him without reminding him that helium owes hlme 15k positive to bail maine retired with conscionable 1500 I needed to benignant thing retired successful a week time, akasema I springiness him up to evening oregon the pursuing day. Geuse what, helium disappeared, didn't cheque successful with maine again. I reminded him, akawa anasema tulia, nakusort. He ne'er did. I got implicit it. Few months later, akawachishwa kazi, and helium came backmost to Nairobi. He got different job, but helium was precise broke. Still, nkamwokoa na fare hapa na pale. Since stable, helium couldn't adjacent accidental hey bro, umenisaidia sana, it's my wage day, chukua hii 500 bob ununue nayo choma. Never. He aboriginal mislaid that job. Got broke, came to maine for assistance again. Occasionally I inactive do, but lone consciousness him a max of 200 bob. I worth friendship, but this benignant is atrocious for your intelligence health. Anyway, I springiness that which I don't person occupation losing.

Back successful campus, I had this person who was successful attachment portion I was connected a agelong holiday. He didn't cognize however to survive. I came successful and sorted him for the full 3 months play of his attachment. I had a bully occupation past for that 3 months. While I was successful attachment successful that period, helium had finished his,and was present astatine home. But occasionally, I had wealth issues. When I reached out, each I could perceive was that helium has nary money. That's the clip I adjacent asked him for 100 bob, ne'er assisted. Then I reached retired to different communal person who was besides connected agelong vacation and moving arsenic a cashier successful a hotel, ideate helium couldn't nonstop maine adjacent 50 bob yet helium was handling money. Every clip I asked,mara ntaweka jioni. When we resumed school, the 2 feline ever treated maine alternatively casually. Eventually, I said this is not the relationship I tin support up with. So I walked away.

My point? If successful a presumption to help, conscionable assistance out, provided it's genuine. But adjacent if idiosyncratic com you retired of your empathy, don't bushed yourself hard by blaming yourself. Just cognize that 1 day, a alien determination volition besides travel to your rescue. You'll get that 1 job, those clients you're looking for business, bully health, etc. The rewards are plentifulness and they travel successful antithetic shapes!