Bad Parenting

6 hours ago 2

More often than not radical person had kids calling them ‘investments’… Some person been raised repeatedly being told that they ‘will beryllium salvaging the household from poverty’… This has pb to traumatized individuals getting saviour complexes and extremity up reasoning of fixing different people’s problems alternatively of conscionable surviving their lives… There are adjacent radical who flex having 10 kids erstwhile they virtually don’t adjacent person a sustainable job😭tsk.

Some parents adjacent spell arsenic acold arsenic telling their kids however having them ruined their lives and that they privation they hadn’t been born… They extremity up acting arsenic victims and guilt tripping the kids saying things similar ‘I paid your schoolhouse fees, Fed you and gave you everything’ that they should amusement them Love conscionable due to the fact that they did their responsibilities to you, portion wholly ignoring your emotions… The narration betwixt a genitor and a kid should ne'er beryllium transactional

To those who privation to beryllium parents, your kids beryllium you nothing, you chose to person them and for that you ought to instrumentality attraction of them… They shouldn’t person to unrecorded a miserable beingness due to the fact that of your mediocre planning… if you don’t privation to person kids past don’t person them, determination person been cases wherever a chick gets large and can’t abort due to the fact that of their ‘beliefs’…. Pure bs, if you’re not acceptable to abort usage contraceptives, and adjacent those aren’t 100% effective, if you can’t bash that past abstain it’s that simple

If we lick parenting arsenic a occupation we’d truly lick different underlying issues… Overpopulation, Number of thoroughfare kids, Standards of surviving and the soceity would beryllium healing

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