AITA for getting back the phone I gave to my cheating ex-gf? - r/Kenya

Backstory. For the involvement of anonymity, I would telephone her Jane. I met Jane astir a twelvemonth agone done tiktok. To beryllium precise, I DMed her jan ,last twelvemonth , she shared her fig and I added her connected my to-do list. We didn't speech instantly since she was successful a municipality acold distant from Nairobi. I conscionable added her to my interaction database ndio nimtafute nikienda location since hiyo mtaa yao alikuwa anasoma ilikuwa karibu na home. Life was good😃.

Around April, past year, I decided to accidental hullo to my folks successful the countryside. Kawaida ya maboy I had to cheque madem wako astir wanipee signifier earlier nielekee jiji. She came to my caput na nikamsaka. I was connected my mode backmost to Nairobi hiyo time hadi na akanishow she was astatine her aunt's spot successful Bomet. Mimi huyo nikamshow nitampitia kumcheck atleast nimmeet for the archetypal time. Time ya kurudi akanishow spot tutameet hapo Bomet. I went, parked my moti hapo kando nikimngoja with my boys. Time alikam maboys wakaniexcuse kiasi past tukabaki kubonga naye. She was successful a hurry juu alikuwa amewachiwa watoi na aunt yake. Tulibonga kiasi past nikamachilia aende. Dem alikuwa ameweza. She was successful a reddish dress, alinikunywa vibaya sana. I would person rated her a 10/10. Off to Nairobi I went nikiwa happy, nikisema lazima nifuatilie huyo dem. Alikuwa anaschool colle iko Bomet environs.

Kufika jiji nikapiga mboka yangu bado akiwa successful mind. Nilikuwa narusha heys' erstwhile successful a portion to support successful touch. Communication haikuwa fluent sana. Nilikuwa nawork online truthful kuna gig tulikuwa tunachapa na mabeshte zangu . Tulikuwa tunaoutsource astir enactment juu we were the squad leaders. Funnily, nikiscroll done my radical nikapata ako ndani. Mimi huyo, nikaruka dm yake, kumwuliza she said his person alimrecruit. Hapo hivo, we started actively talking, nikaanza kumpea gigs archetypal priority. Kulipa pia nilikuwa namfavour kiasi. Ilikuwa kurusha ndoano kushika samaki. Tukaanza kuvibe, namsaka na pia alikuwa anareciprocate energy. Maybe ni juu dollar inaingia. Kidogo nikamwitisha mechi , nary strings attached, na akakubali. Nikamshow time nitakuwa country za location nitamsaka.

Hiyo period sikufika mtaa juu nilikuwa successful an mishap kidogo, drunk driving. The adjacent period nikaomba boys wangu gari yake na nikaingia mtaa. Tulipanga everything na the pursuing time nikamtafuta. Tukaenda ulevini kidogo , nikiwa na mechi successful mind. Dem alikuwa light-weight alibebwa mbio akaanza kuongea mingi. Nikasaka country na we went. Dem alikataa kutoa mali nikasema labda ni pombe inafanya kuact hivo. Asubuhi kufika nilikuwa nimejam sana hadi hatukuongea. Nikamdrop shule na hivo nikaenda zangu. Baadaye alikuja kuapologize na connection ikarudi. Nikamadd kwa database ya options clip niko around.

Nikarudi jiji na everytime nikifika mtaa nilikuwa namsaka. July nikiwa mtaa, nikamsaka. Ulevi kiasi past room. Akagive successful yet , nikakagua mali na haikuwa mbaya. Better than Nairobians. We kept the speech going na ni kama attachment ikakam. Nikaminvite Nai , alikam . I conjecture that's wherever we started going raw. She grew exceptionally attached. She would often sojourn and that's however we started earnestly dating. We would spot each different aft each 2 weeks ikienda sana. Twas amazing. Huyo nikaona nitaenda naye hadi uzeeni.

Around Nov, past year, nikaamua kurelocate ocha to enactment connected immoderate farming task I had running. Sasa tulikuwa truthful adjacent and we would bent retired similar each 2 -3days ikienda sana. Mapenzi ilikuwa choky kama kifuniko ya gas. Hadi tukamove in. She would enactment astatine my spot similar mundane juu alikuwa last year, truthful schoolhouse wasn't that superior ata. Hadi majirani wanajua kwangu kama kwake.

Fast forward, astir March dem akashika shot na tulikuwa fiti. Tulikuwa tunaanticipate mtoi vibaya sana. April akamada shule na akamove successful officially. After exams alihave kwenda kumove stuffs zake kwao truthful akaenda home. Kulikuwa na alot of unit from her parents broadside akae kwao juu yeye ndio status program ya wazae wake. Akiwa kwao , issues kiasi ikaarise. Tukakasirikiana na we weren't talking. Next connection I see, kuna alot of discharge amepata na anasuspect ameloose pregnancy. Akaenda hosi za kwao na yes that was it. Rewind, ni kama mamake ndio down it. Alimpea dawa za kienyeji za kufanya mtoi akuwe kijana na hivo ndio shot ikatoka. That's what alinishow. I fishy hata ni kutoa alitoa mwenyewe sai. Later realised alikuwa ameanza kuona immoderate feline wa uko kwao from pics I saw kwa telephone nilikuwa nimempea. Kuloose gestation iliniumiza sana juu nilikuwa nimeexpect mjunior sana na nikamblame for taking the kienyeji dawa. Akatake to the bosom na hiyo ikawa contented kubwa sana. We aboriginal came to lick vile alirudi na kila kitu ikaendelea vizuri. We were bully arsenic to me. Huyu alikuwa ashakuwa bibi sasa. We were officially come-we-stay couples nikipanga vile familia zitajuana. July ,last month, shule ikamconnect na gig neighbouring region na she had to spell . Pesa muhimu. Nikamachilia aende. She packed essentials kwangu na akaenda. Nilimpeleka hadi shule , coz shule ilikuwa imeorganize transport ya kuwapeleka. We were happy, akanipromise vile akirudi atakuja kunispoil juu atakuwa na doo zake. Jokes connected maine guys.

Kufika we were bully na tulikuwa tunaongea mundane . Bibi alikuwa kazi yk. I was happy. Hadi akanitumia 400 ya samosa guys juu alikuwa amellipwa. 2 weeks successful connection ikaanza kupotea kiasi. Later learnt kuna ninja alikuwa ameanza kuchapa mali from telephone conversations. They were officially dating. Ni workfellow aftermath walipatana kwa hiyo gig. Then kuna different ninja pia alipelekewa mali uko Naks manzee hiyo clip tulikuwa tumemute.

Gig ilikuwa ya 1 period na ikafika clip ya kurudi. Mimi nikamtext kumjulia hali na vile nimemmiss akanishow mambo iliisha kitambo. Nilikuwa nimempea telephone (Iphone 13 pro max) nikasema hii lazima itarudi bana. Juzi, sato , Time ya kurudi akanishow anakam but hakuji kwangu tena. Anaenda kwa siz yake. Siz yake hiyo clip alikuwa location truthful alifaa kupewa cardinal na a person siz alimwachia key. Nikakeep checking connected her, twas 9pm na bado cardinal haikuwa imefika. Nikamshow wacha nikukujie juu hiyo spot haikuwa mbali na kwangu na I had my car connected standby . Dem akanishow hapana, tutameet kesho, jana sasa. Nikamshow nakam anyway. Akanishow atafunga simu which I thought ni jokes . Mimi huyo nikaenda, kufika dem alikuwa ashazima simu. Heartless humans. Slept astatine immoderate lodging ndio nimmeet kesho yake which was yesterday. Asubuhi, I called her , we met. Talked kiasi kwa gari na nilikuwa nishamake up caput ni either we spell ama tuachane. She chose worse for worse , na hivo ndio nikamshow anipee simu. She tried kunishow hana ya kutumia but nilikuwa nishamake up mind. She gave maine my IPhone na mimi nikajiendea.

Kufika location , nikacheck the telephone na that's however I recovered retired astir her matter with the workfellow na Naks guy.. I'm truthful heartbroken to accidental the least. Nimetry kukula but nutrient haiendi. Nimeamua kuvent to strangers labda nitakuwa better. I deleted each her photos connected my telephone and the Iphone I had fixed her. There is not a azygous hint of her photograph successful my telephone and ile nilikuwa nishampea. Blocked her connected each socials. It's hurting. I've officially breached up with her na started the nary contact. Mapenzi ni scam.

I was feeling atrocious baada ya kumnyanganya iphone but vile niliona grounds nimekuwa better. AITA???